One side note. Our happiness and mood can vary, but will typically be in a range so if you have a number that you'd like to raise, see what you can do in the next few days to create more happy-producing behaviors and patterns.
For example, in the past I had a tendency to get irritated with Marcus when he was running late when we have a meeting together. This happened yesterday, and I felt the familiar irritation rising. So I took myself aside, mentally and spiritually, and said, "just try to be calm and happy about how you talk to Marcus and help both of us get ready to leave. Just try it out and see how it goes." Well, it worked. Instead of being irritated and impatient, I just watched my breathing and got myself ready to go. I was happier and Marcus... well Marcus is usually pretty happy irregardless of what's going on around him; but it certainly raised my happiness quotient yesterday. (By the way, I often use the word try when I talk to myself because it provides less argument fodder for the ego. In other words, try is harder for my ego to fight against; it helps my ego acquiesce.) Today's a new day. I played volleyball this morning in the drizzling pseud-rain and it kind of put me in a funk. So today my strategy is to pamper myself a little as a reward for playing my regularly scheduled volleyball class (instead of skipping). I'm off to do that. Relax. Breathe. Pamper. Simple, but they seem to raise my feelings of joy and happiness.
Take the quiz today and then start looking at how you behave, respond, and act in certain situations; see if you can try something else. See if you can raise your number.
The One-Minute Happiness Quiz
- I have a healthy personality with high self-esteem, strong willpower, and a positive attitude. 1 2 3 4 5
- I feel connected with and have loving relationships with family, pets, friends, spouse, or lover. 1 2 3 4 5
- Old or new emotional wounds have healed. I harbor no grudges. 1 2 3 4 5
- I have meaningful goals that I'm passionately pursuing. 1 2 3 4 5
- Work (and/or school) is satisfying. 1 2 3 4 5
- I am financially secure. 1 2 3 4 5
- I have many interests and pleasures. 1 2 3 4 5
- I am physically healthy, I exercise, sleep well, eat well, and have low stress. 1 2 3 4 5
- I enjoy learning and acquiring knowledge. Furthermore, I use my creative talents. 1 2 3 4 5
- I have a personal truth or belief system that provides a meaning to my life. 1 2 3 4 5
Score: Total _________
Quiz score interpretation:
- 10-15 Double your Prozac dose*
- 16-25 There's room for improvement
- 26-35 Very good. You can learn to be happier.
- 36-49 Congratulations. Consider writing your own book on happiness.
- 50 Incredible! Hold on to something. You may be levitating at any moment.
- *I do believe our friend Dr. Sahelian is being a little sarcastic with 10-15.
- Qi Pao! My hips in China
- Raw Milk has been pulled from Whole Foods shelves
- How Betty White deals with the Census
- Anxious or calm?
- Sunscreen may increase the risk of skin cancer!
- What happened to Kathleen Turner?
- Hairiosity!
- And All the Cows Said Moo, TWO!
- A Luke-warm Mess
- Let Go! Your Children Know More Than You Think
- Are you hungry for change? So is Food, Inc.
- Liberating yourself from your own fears
- The smallest non-child, non-midget person I've ever seen
- Stupid trumps hot
- The 15 Things that Pasteurization Kills
- A hugging, laughing, happy mess
- The HPV vaccination could be more dangerous than what it "prevents"
- Is Jake Pavelka a douche bag?
- It's all about interpretation
- Have you forgotten how glorious you are?
- The best reason for DONUTS
- Dr. Mercola recommends raw milk!
- We'd all be pillars of salt
- James Cameron was robbed!
- What do you want?
- The Real British Invasion or...Hey there Brit, how's your American accent?
- Andre Agassi is now Open
- Farts
- Love & Hate. Drugs & Rebellion.
- Occam's Razor - It's a Life & Faith Principle
- If Richard Pryor had a period...
- If you're prone to nudeness...
- Hello, my name is Temple Grandin.
- Blog tease, yelling to no one & the secret to long...
- My Addendum to "Choose a Job You Love..."
- The Primal Diet & Running
- Chop Wood, Carry Water, Do Taxes
- The male member revealed
- Play with the Girls
- How to tame the psycho hose beast
- Oh boy, that's a good question! or How to Deal with the Census
- These boots were made for walking
- If I were a Ninja, I'd wear these shoes
- How my friend Sally became the new First Lady
- My Boyfriend has Autism...Maybe
- Raw Primal Papaya Custard - The Nectar of the Gods
- And All the Cows Said Moo!
- If you were John Mayer, you would too
- Tiredness - Varieties of and unforeseen side-effects
- Foreplay is overrated
- Food should be As God Intended or Why isn't everything we eat organic?
- Yelling - One of the Highest Forms of Compassion
- The Cove - Louie Psihoyos' Oscar speech & a guide on how to create change...
- My Favorite Things...Arrabiata Recipe - Fresh, Organic, Vegan or Primal
- My Favorite Shows on Television...or how David Duchovney & Jesus are likely Good in Bed
- The Hawaiian Islands and Washington D.C.’s sand-paper circle-jerk about Health Care
- My Buddha has Termites...A Lesson in Infinite Joy
- The One-Date-Wonders!
- I had to learn SIGN LANGUAGE when I moved to Los Angeles
- Guys can make a game out of anything
- Hello? The power of CONNECTING and how technology has changed things
- Popping the question is better than porn!
- Bravo, Stephen Colbert & Co! and your Olympic Vancouverage
- Songwriting is like SEX
- Born To Run by Christopher McDougall - Inspiring a inspiring all of us to be more in the FLOW
- A moment of silence for all the plastic surgery casualties
- Ricky Gervais should be the new Simon on American Idol
- Muscle SURPRISE! The key to physical, mental & emotional fitness
- I think my boyfriend's a snake...
- Release... Sweat & Power
- MY FAVORITE THINGS! - Vibram's Five Fingers
- Dick Morris... How do you sleep at night?
- Rusty DePass, Gorillas, and Obama, oh my!
- Michael Jackson - Troubled Genius
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