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Monday, July 19, 2010

Smart vs Stupid

During a conversation recently with Marcus, we had a mini-epiphany about the behaviors of smart people versus the behavior of stupid people.

A mini-epiphany, for me, is an epiphany about the everyday things in life, and they're usually general or relatively minor and not life-altering... An epiphany, without the mini, is more life-changing or altering, and usually changes our perspective completely.

So, this is what we came up with.


Smart people think they're stupid, or fallible, or know they sometimes make mistakes, so they double check things. Like the date/time for a scheduled meeting. They don't assume that when a person says, meet Tuesday they mean the very next Tuesday, they check the date too.

Stupid people assume they're smart. They think they've got something or know something without having to take a moment to ensure they actually do... Now this doesn't mean they're holistically stupid, just being stupid or deluded in that particular moment - though please look for patterns of this in your life if this is true for you.

This all can happen very quickly in the way we interact and check or verify our perceptions. If you think you're in the second category, it's time to heighten your awareness. Since you've likely created a subconscious pattern or habit of misinterpreting information, you're going to have to reprogram yourself via some sort of bedtime reprogramming or hypnotherapy or retraining yourself to create new patterns. The easiest way to do this on your own is using nighttime journaling or affirmation stating, since we're most naturally suggestible at night before sleep. I like The Mental Bank program by John Kappas, which I'll be teaching in the near future, but if you're interested, you can check it out at http://www.hypnosis.edu/bookstore/self-improvement/mental-bank/. You don't even have to buy anything. There's a free video of it online and when I started it, I used a plain notebook (rather than buying the workbook). If you're doing it on your own though, please remember to do all three: value events; happenings/wins; and affirmations every night. It's been working great for me for changing old patterns/limitations about money and income.

In the past I might've shied away from such gross generalizations, but if I've pissed you off with the above, check to see if you exhibit some of the behaviors of the second description. Also, eliciting some response is good, even if you vehemently disagree.

Let me know what you think.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Stupid trumps hot


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Buckle your seat belts, put on your helmets, roll down the prophylactics, and strap on if that's your flavor, because this is going to be a short, bumpy, and abrupt ride.

For years I've said stupid trumps hot. 

What does that mean? Well, it seems obvious enough to me, but let me expound for all my readers out there.

I don't care how hot you are. If you're stupid, the stupid is always louder and more glaring than any attractiveness, handsomeness or hotness you might possess.

Now I understand that some men may disagree with me. One of my oldest friends, who we'll call Jay, used to say, "I don't believe in one-night stands. I've never had one... but I've had a lot of eight-hour relationships."

What this tells me is that men will put aside their critical mind (who needs it when the blood is rushing elsewhere?) for a night of hot sex with some gorgeous woman regardless of what she has going on upstairs.

No, I don't mean her tits, I mean her brain. Eyes on the prize, people.

But I believe any man over the age of...I don't know 25, and with more than 5 notches on his bedpost will attest to the fact that women who have some intelligence, and especially personality, sometimes even the crazy ones (though please, please stay away from the crazy and stupid ones - they're just Trouble with a capitol T!) are always more fun in bed.

I will even go so far to say that as long as they're not too crazy, personality and intelligence will create a better relationship. If that's what you're looking for...

Now for most women I know, a stupid guy is intolerable. That's part of why girls who are twenty date men who are thirty-something or older. It's not that we like silver foxes, necessarily, it's just that it's painful to try to maintain anything other than a few (men in their early twenties are usually good for one-three goes in one night) energetic throw-downs. After a few months of habitually eye-rolling at our 22-year-old boyfriends (I remember this clearly from when I was in my late teens/early twenties), we'll gladly trade a few extra romps for some intelligent conversation and maturity.

So, in closing. Stupid trumps hot. Every time.

Every time.

You dispute? Leave it in the comments, suckas!

Also, stupid trumps rich too. Always.

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