Boobs Trump I.Q.

Need I explain the title?

I guess the answer to that is probably "yes."

Let me disclaim first.

This does not mean that you can get away with being stupid if you have large breasts, though many women, I'm sure, have been excused their intellectual magnitude for a magnitude of bosom, but this type of boobage trumping I.Q. is not actually what this blog is about.

No, this blog is about the fact that very smart men, sometimes even bona fide geniuses can still have their I.Q. and intelligence fully trumped by partially or fully exposed breasts. Come to think of it, a tight sweater alone sometimes does it.

What I mean by fully trumped is, I've witnessed men completely and totally loose their train of thought just by flashing a boob or two.

Now this is not something I do in public, at least nothing I've done in public yet, but more based on my private observations with a few very intelligent men I've known biblically.

This happened recently and it made me laugh. Marcus was on some rant about quantum or particle physics and the fabric of the universe or something along those lines, while I was honestly ready to wind down and be done with his grandiose proclamations for the night. Anyway, not sure I did this intentionally, but I happened to be disrobing at this moment, and he immediately lost his train of thought and gently lunged toward my now exposed breasts muttering "booo-biees" to himself like Gollum mutters "my precioussss..." in Lord of the Rings.

Now the side note is: Marcus's I.Q. was tested at 175 when he was a child, and while he's undoubtedly lost a few if not many I.Q. points since he was tested, he still is probably higher than the average bear, average being 85-115.

But on the particular night in question, it really cracked me up and made me realize, yet again, that while both sexes are currently relevant and necessary for survival of the species, women are still kind of the stronger sex. Sure, we may be more prone to mood swings than men, though I've met some moody men, and we bleed out of a primary orifice on a monthly basis, and we might get irrationally pissed off when the garbage hasn't been taken out or the dishes haven't been done, but still, it seems we have more ability to compartmentalize and still carry on a conversation even when a penis is flashed.

The counter equivalent to men getting wholly distracted by the flash of breasts would be women getting completely distracted by the sight of a penis. I admit, it would surprise me a bit if I were giving a talk on filmmaking, music, hypnosis or even physics (one of my favorite subjects in school), but ultimately I could still carry on a conversation quite easily were a bare penis present during my physics talk. 

Some may argue it's because penises, as Seinfeld so aptly pointed out, belong to a male body which is largely a utilitarian sculpture. But when you think of it, breasts are utilitarian too - they are nature's perfect milk dispensary, deli or trough for babies.

So what's the thesis?

Maybe it's just this:

Ladies, if you want your guy to shut up, flash a boob or two.

Just know, you might get fondled at least, and ravished at most.

"Booo-biees"

Smart vs Stupid

During a conversation recently with Marcus, we had a mini-epiphany about the behaviors of smart people versus the behavior of stupid people.

A mini-epiphany, for me, is an epiphany about the everyday things in life, and they're usually general or relatively minor and not life-altering... An epiphany, without the mini, is more life-changing or altering, and usually changes our perspective completely.

So, this is what we came up with.


Smart people think they're stupid, or fallible, or know they sometimes make mistakes, so they double check things. Like the date/time for a scheduled meeting. They don't assume that when a person says, meet Tuesday they mean the very next Tuesday, they check the date too.

Stupid people assume they're smart. They think they've got something or know something without having to take a moment to ensure they actually do... Now this doesn't mean they're holistically stupid, just being stupid or deluded in that particular moment - though please look for patterns of this in your life if this is true for you.

This all can happen very quickly in the way we interact and check or verify our perceptions. If you think you're in the second category, it's time to heighten your awareness. Since you've likely created a subconscious pattern or habit of misinterpreting information, you're going to have to reprogram yourself via some sort of bedtime reprogramming or hypnotherapy or retraining yourself to create new patterns. The easiest way to do this on your own is using nighttime journaling or affirmation stating, since we're most naturally suggestible at night before sleep. I like The Mental Bank program by John Kappas, which I'll be teaching in the near future, but if you're interested, you can check it out at http://www.hypnosis.edu/bookstore/self-improvement/mental-bank/. You don't even have to buy anything. There's a free video of it online and when I started it, I used a plain notebook (rather than buying the workbook). If you're doing it on your own though, please remember to do all three: value events; happenings/wins; and affirmations every night. It's been working great for me for changing old patterns/limitations about money and income.

In the past I might've shied away from such gross generalizations, but if I've pissed you off with the above, check to see if you exhibit some of the behaviors of the second description. Also, eliciting some response is good, even if you vehemently disagree.

Let me know what you think.