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Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Sojourn to Japan 2 - The Nail that Sticks Out...

A well-known Japanese cliche is, "The nail that sticks out gets hammered down," or this alternate translation: "The nail that sticks out gets hit on the head."

Well, I was that nail accidentally during my trip in Japan.

You see, I stuck out like a nail, or a sore thumb as the saying goes. 

Fortunately, I didn't get hit on the head, though I suppose my sticking out was mostly unintentional...

Tall, round-ish eyed, and pale (not Nicole Kidman pale, but clearly of Euro-caucasian descent), I stood out in the sea of relatively short, slanty-eyed, black-haired rice-lovers.

You see, my friend Koko has a fantastic and sometimes sick sense of humor. While walking in the train stations in Japan, which are teeming with Japanese citizens going to and fro, Koko would slow down her gate and blend in with the other Japanese citizens - causing me to stand out even more (as I suddenly became a solo, tall caucasian traveler), and had a brief and irrational panic that I'd lost my Japanese-looking and -speaking friend and tour-guide. She'd reveal herself soon enough after watching me look around unsuccessfully for her. 

It was actually quite funny and after the first time, I knew Koko was doing this for her amusement and mine, so I'd play my part and look around at the sea of black-haired people milling around, the tops of their heads at the base of my eye-line. 

It was quite an experience. In all my travels up to that point, I'd never been such an oddity. I'd always either traveled with other Americans, or seen other round-eyes while traveling on a regular basis. In Japan, I went for a whole week without seeing another human who looked remotely like me.

Funny thing is, as most new-age types will tell you, we're more different than we are similar. We all just want to connect, feel like we have a purpose, and express ourselves. That's what I found, anyway. 

Though, I didn't speak the language, so maybe they were all just quietly laughing at the tall, round-eyed American walking through their train station like a lost, sticking-out nail.




Saturday, July 3, 2010

Long Leg, Small Face - Sojourn to Japan

In 2005 I took a trip half-way around the world and received my native name.

Like Stands With a Fist in Dances With Wolves, I did not pick my name. Rather it was given to me by the tribe I joined briefly in Japan...

My good friend Koko was teaching English to high school students in Osaka, and since I was on hiatus from my job at the time as Production Manager on a FOX television Managing show, I decided to visit Ms. Koko and see a little slice of Japan.

It was one of my favorite trips. We had so much fun. Here's one of the more memorable experiences.

As a musician and singer, I often sing for my supper, and/or basically do a little song and dance (without the dance if I can help it) while traveling, visiting or otherwise saying hello to friends. It's just something that has happened. Flattering and fun at best, annoying at worst, but on this particular trip, I was happy to play music at the school where Koko was teaching. Also, even when I don't feel like playing, I always end up loving it once I get going. For those who haven't tried it, singing and playing music is absolutely a natural high. Or maybe that's just me...

So I used the guitar Koko had, and I played and sang a few songs.

Well, apparently the kids liked it.

Remember, I'm 5'8" which is tallish in Japan. But there are certainly taller women than yours truly in the U.S. and especially in Los Angeles. But in Japan...

Several times they referred to me when speaking to each other about me or directly with me as long leg, small face.

It seems they were referring to my stature as well as the size of my face. Plurals seem to be optional with beginning English if Japanese is your first language, so "leg" (no s) was sufficient for a description. Also, I didn't realize my face was particularly small, in fact I think I have a rather strong jaw-line, but apparently, it was a compliment through and through.

So...my honorary Japanese name is Long Leg, Small Face.

Also worth noting, one 16-year-old kid came up to me and said, "please me." because he wanted to meet me. You see, sometimes they leave out the more complicated or hard to pronounce words like, "introduce," so he went with the simpler, "please me." After briefly smiling (Koko) and giggling (me), Koko promptly introduced me to this eager young fella.

Overall, the kids were very appreciative that I played music and shared my long legedness and small face-ity with them. I'd do it again in a heart-beat.

Though next time, I'll remember to accentuate my Long Legs, Small Face.